Being taken for granted!!!

Something that erks me like nothing else on this earth, is being taken for granted.

I do things for my loved ones because I want to but when I'm treated like I do not even exist, when what I do is not appreciated, I tend to loose my sense of humor.

And when I loose my sense of humor you notice it !!!!!

Ten years back, I would have cut strips off people with my tongue. I have learnt to curb my sharp tongue but it is very difficult to not show my dissatisfaction. I want to stop doing the things that I usually do to make life comfortable for my loved ones.

I ask myself why don't I get treated with little surprises when I get home? Why don't I get offered something to drink when a drink is being poured? Why do I always have to do the cooking? Why must I always pack the dishwasher? Why do I always have to do the laundry? Why do I always give the back scratches?

Why? why? why?

I just it is up to me to change things ..............